I love hero stories and I always have. They make you feel hopeful. Heroes show human potential; they prove that survival is possible no matter how poor the circumstances and how high the stakes. They tell you that if you fight hard enough you can make it through, even if you lose things along the way. And regardless of whether or not I think this is a realistic lesson, it still has value in that while you read that story, you believe you can win.
My hero is and has been Coraline Jones from Neil Gaiman's
Coraline for a while. Coraline is a girl who after moving into her new home, discovers her other mother on the opposite side of a wall. The other world seems to be a perfect version of her own world where her parents are attentive to her and she has everything that she could wish for. And her other mother gives Coraline the opportunity to stay in this perfect world if she allows for buttons to be sewn into her eyes. Horrified at this proposition, Coraline refuses until the other mother takes her parents and Coraline is forced to the lives of her parents, three other children, and herself.
Neil Gaiman says in the foreword of the tenth anniversary edition of Coraline that he wrote it for his daughter. “Holly liked scary stories,with witches and brave little girls in them” according to Gaiman. I also like stories with witches and brave little girls. I like it so much when children beat adults with little or no help, when they defy the odds and beat the system despite being looked down upon and ignored. And Coraline is perfect because every child knows what it's like to be looked down upon and ignored. Through the entire book, no adult in Coraline’s life ever listens to her. Her parents are too focused on their work to pay attention to her and her neighbors simply don't listen. Even when she tries something as simple as correcting the pronunciation of her name and they don't listen at all. And because she's alone, she gets into a bad situation, but she gets out of it all on her own. She didn't need to rely on any adults to save herself. She could succeed on her own not because of them, but despite them, and that was something I really hung onto as a kid. That I could do it and I didn't need anyone else.
When Coraline is searching for an old well near her home, “It’s supposed to be so deep that if you fall in and look up, you’ll see a sky full of stars in the middle of the day,” the character Wybie says when she finds it. Coraline, as a self-proclaimed explorer, was fascinated by this idea and she wanted to see that sky full of stars. And unfortunately, she found that sky full of stars in the middle of the day in the other world. But one thing that I admire so much about Coraline is that this world was everything she wanted. Everything would've been easier for her had she just accepted the buttons in her eyes and lived the "perfect" life. But Coraline listened to her intuition and she did what she felt was right, not what was easy.
“This is the story of Coraline, who was small for her age, and found herself in darkest danger. Before it was all over Coraline had seen what lay behind mirrors, and had a close call with a bad hand, and had come face to face with her other mother; she had rescued her true parents from a fate worse than death and triumphed against overwhelming odds. This is the story of Coraline, who lost her parents, and found them again, and (more or less) escaped (more or less) unscathed.” This is what Neil Gaiman prefaces his book with and this is a pretty good summary of why the story means so much to me. Coraline was small for her age. She wasn't the biggest or the strongest or the one that anyone would have expected to win, but she still did it. She faced all of those things and still managed to win. Against overwhelming odds, she won. And she more or less escaped more or less unscathed. Everything wasn't perfect when she returned, the story wasn't over, not everything was okay, but as the boy said to her at the end, "It's not all bad, miss. Thou art alive. Thou art still living." Coraline is important to me because she's just a kid. She's just a little girl who was small for her age who found herself in darkest danger. And while her journey sucked, she's alive, she's still living. And for me it's the brave little girls like Coraline who manage to stay alive that make it worth trying when things get hard.